Dirty Truth or Dare Questions

These are for adults who already trust each other: explicit truths about fantasies and hard limits, and dares that do not stop at kissing.

If you have never talked about kinks together, start with the limits talk set. It is a relaxed way to find out what both of you would try, with clothes still on.

No Limits Truth or Dare

For couples who already know each other’s yes and no.

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Truths

  1. What fantasy have you never said out loud?
  2. What do you want to try that scares you a little?
  3. How do you like to be touched when you are close?
  4. What is the dirtiest thing you would let me say to you?
  5. Which toy should we buy next?
  6. What is your favourite position with me, and why?
  7. Would you rather be tied up or do the tying?
  8. What is the wildest thing you have ever done in bed?
  9. Have you ever faked it with me? Be honest.
  10. What do you think about when you finish?
  11. What is your favourite thing to do with your mouth?
  12. Have you ever wanted to watch me with a toy?
  13. Where would you most like me to finish?
  14. What is the kinkiest porn you have enjoyed?
  15. Would you try a threesome? With whom, in theory?
  16. What is one thing I could do tonight that would blow your mind?
  17. Do you like being told what to do in bed?
  18. What is your favourite thing I say during sex?
  19. What would you want to try on a weekend away?
  20. Have you ever touched yourself thinking about someone else while with me?
  21. What is the most times you have finished in one day?
  22. Would you rather be teased for hours or taken hard and fast?
  23. What is a role you would love me to play?
  24. What body part of yours do you want me to pay more attention to?
  25. Have you ever wanted to film us? Would you?
  26. What is your hardest no?
  27. What kink have you been curious about lately?
  28. How rough do you secretly like it?
  29. What is the best sex we ever had, and what made it so good?
  30. What would you do to me if I couldn’t move?

Dares

  1. Use your mouth wherever I point, one minute
  2. Touch yourself while I watch for 30 seconds
  3. Let me tie your hands for the rest of the game
  4. Get me as close as you can, then stop
  5. Choose a position and hold it for two minutes
  6. Strip completely, slowly
  7. Let me pick a punishment for your next skipped dare
  8. Oral for one minute, eye contact the whole time
  9. Use a toy on me for one minute, your choice
  10. Let me use a toy on you while you keep still
  11. Describe in detail what you will do to me, without touching
  12. Spank me five times
  13. Get on your knees and ask nicely for what you want
  14. Blindfold me and touch me somewhere unexpected
  15. Kiss every part of me except where I want it most
  16. Finish me with your hands, no breaks
  17. Ride me for one minute
  18. Edge me twice in a row
  19. Lick me slowly from my knee up
  20. Put on a show for me for one song
  21. Let me choose a position, no complaints
  22. Use only your tongue for two minutes
  23. Pull my hair while you kiss me
  24. Let me decide when you finish tonight
  25. Kiss me while touching yourself
  26. Make me beg before you continue
  27. Show me exactly how you touch yourself
  28. Wear nothing but one accessory for the rest of the game
  29. Take me to the edge with your mouth, then stop
  30. Pick any dare from this game and double it

Limits Talk: BDSM Truth or Dare

A first conversation about kink, disguised as a game. Do it with clothes on.

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Truths

  1. Would you rather be in control or give it up?
  2. What is a hard no for you?
  3. What is something you would try once?
  4. What word should be our safe word?
  5. How do you want to be cared for afterwards?
  6. What do you want to be called during a scene?
  7. Which is hotter: being tied or being told?
  8. How do you feel about marks the next day?
  9. Which tool scares you most, and which excites you most?
  10. What is your favourite kind of pain, if any?
  11. Do you want to be praised or degraded? Or neither?
  12. What would make you feel unsafe?
  13. What should I do if you go quiet?
  14. Do you prefer rules that last a scene or a whole day?
  15. What kind of punishment turns you on?
  16. What kind of punishment would actually upset you?
  17. Do you want a collar? What would it mean to you?
  18. What part of your body is off limits?
  19. How long could you stay in one position?
  20. Have you ever been spanked? Did you like it?
  21. Would you like to be blindfolded the whole scene?
  22. What do you want to feel at the end of a scene?
  23. What do you need from me the next morning?
  24. Which role do you see me in more naturally?
  25. What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
  26. Would you rather obey slowly or rebel and be punished?
  27. What is a fantasy that is only for talking, not doing?
  28. Do you want to be tied to the bed or to a chair?
  29. How often do you want to play like this?
  30. What would a perfect first scene look like?

Dares

  1. Hold my wrists above my head for one minute
  2. Give me an order and see if I obey
  3. Put the blindfold on me for the next round
  4. Spank me once, as hard as you think I like
  5. Kneel for 30 seconds
  6. Describe the scene you want, in detail
  7. Call me by a title until your next turn
  8. Ask permission before touching me, for the rest of the game
  9. Let me put the collar on you
  10. Stay perfectly still while I tease you for one minute
  11. Thank me after every touch for one minute
  12. Choose our safe word and say it out loud
  13. Show me with your hand how hard you like to be spanked
  14. Kiss my feet
  15. Let me tie your wrists for one round
  16. Count out loud as I spank you five times
  17. Give me three rules for the rest of the evening
  18. Beg for a kiss
  19. Lie across my lap
  20. Let me run the ice cube anywhere I want for 30 seconds
  21. Kneel and present your wrists
  22. Use the paddle on me lightly three times
  23. Say "yes, Sir" or "yes, Ma’am" to everything for one round
  24. Hold eye contact while I give you an order
  25. Stay on your knees until I say you may stand
  26. Let me pick a punishment for your next skipped dare
  27. Pull my hair gently and tell me what to do
  28. Put your hands behind your back and keep them there
  29. Tell me one thing you want me to make you do
  30. Give me aftercare for five minutes, right now

Strap-On Truth or Dare

Talk about it first, then try it.

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Truths

  1. Have you ever fantasised about being pegged?
  2. Which position would you want to try first?
  3. What makes you nervous about it?
  4. Would you rather be slow and gentle or be told what to do?
  5. What size would you start with?
  6. What would you like her to say while she does it?
  7. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think of a strap-on?
  8. Would you rather she take control or you guide her?
  9. Have you ever explored with a finger or a toy alone?
  10. What would make you feel safest the first time?
  11. Do you want to watch in a mirror?
  12. Would you rather she be dressed or naked?
  13. What do you want her to do with her hands while she’s behind you?
  14. Do you want to be stroked during it?
  15. Which would turn you on more: begging for it or being told to take it?
  16. What do you think it feels like for her?
  17. What warm-up would you like most?
  18. Have you ever watched pegging porn? What did you like?
  19. What would you call her during it?
  20. Would you rather be face up or face down?
  21. What would you want for aftercare?
  22. What do you think would surprise you most?
  23. Would you want to try it again the same night?
  24. Which of your fantasies would she enjoy most?
  25. What harness or toy colour would you choose?
  26. Do you want her to talk dirty or stay quiet?
  27. What is one thing that would make you say stop?
  28. How do you think it will change how you see her?
  29. Do you want to plan it or have her surprise you?
  30. If you had to describe the experience you want in one word?

Dares

  1. Let her put a finger in for one minute
  2. Help her put on the harness
  3. Use your mouth on the strap-on for 30 seconds
  4. Kneel and ask her nicely
  5. Lie face down and let her massage your back and bottom
  6. Ride the strap-on for one minute
  7. Let her tease you with lube and fingers for two minutes
  8. Bend over the bed and wait for her
  9. Wear a small plug until your next turn
  10. Let her grind against you with the strap-on
  11. Say exactly what you want her to do
  12. Hold eye contact while she enters slowly
  13. Let her set the pace for one minute, no complaints
  14. Stroke yourself while she watches
  15. Kiss her while she holds the strap-on
  16. Let her guide your hips
  17. Get on all fours for 30 seconds
  18. Let her spank you while you ride
  19. Thank her after each slow thrust for one minute
  20. Ask her for more, out loud
  21. Let her blindfold you for the next round
  22. Lie back with your legs up for her
  23. Let her use a vibrator on you at the same time
  24. Tell her how it feels, in detail, while it happens
  25. Spoon with the strap-on in for one minute, no moving
  26. Kiss her neck while she’s behind you
  27. Let her put the cock ring on you
  28. Beg her not to stop
  29. Let her choose the next position
  30. Pick a dare for her, she must do it with the strap-on on

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