Foreplay Ideas for Couples

Good foreplay is mostly about taking your time. These games make that easy: a die decides what comes off and how, a massage that slowly stops being just a massage, and timers that make you stop right when it gets interesting.

Undress Me Dice

Who takes what off, and how. Keep rolling until there’s nothing left.

Play “Undress Me Dice” →

Who

  1. You undress me
  2. I undress you
  3. You undress yourself
  4. I undress myself
  5. Both at once
  6. Loser of rock-paper-scissors

What

  1. Top
  2. Bottoms
  3. Socks
  4. Underwear
  5. Accessory
  6. Your choice
  7. One item
  8. Two items

How

  1. Slowly
  2. With your teeth
  3. Eyes closed
  4. While kissing
  5. Strip-tease style
  6. No hands
  7. In under 10 seconds
  8. Partner gives directions

Sensual Massage Dice

A massage that slowly stops being just a massage.

Play “Sensual Massage Dice” →

Area

  1. Back
  2. Shoulders
  3. Inner thighs
  4. Chest
  5. Stomach
  6. Feet
  7. Bottom
  8. Lower back
  9. Neck
  10. Hips

With

  1. Warm oil
  2. Fingertips
  3. Whole palms
  4. Forearms
  5. Your body
  6. Lips
  7. Breath
  8. Nails, lightly

For

  1. 1 minute
  2. 2 minutes
  3. 3 minutes
  4. 5 minutes
  5. One song
  6. Until they moan

Then

  1. Kiss the spot
  2. Move lower
  3. Move higher
  4. Switch roles
  5. Keep going
  6. Partner chooses

Kissing Timer

A kiss challenge and a timer. No stopping before it rings.

Play “Kissing Timer” →

Each task runs for 20–75 seconds.

  1. Kiss without using hands
  2. Kiss while slow dancing
  3. Kiss only the neck
  4. Kiss with your eyes open
  5. Kiss as slowly as possible
  6. Kiss and whisper between kisses
  7. Kiss sitting on my lap
  8. Kiss like it’s the last time

Tease Timer

A random task and a random time. When it rings, you stop. No matter what.

Play “Tease Timer” →

Each task runs for 30–120 seconds.

  1. Kiss without using hands
  2. Massage my back
  3. Kiss along my neck and shoulders
  4. Undress me, slowly
  5. Kiss me everywhere except the lips
  6. Grind on my lap
  7. Fingertips only, anywhere above the waist

Shower Together Cards

Hop in together, draw a card each time you swap places under the water.

Play “Shower Together Cards” →

  1. Lather: Wash your partner’s back and shoulders slowly.
  2. Hair: Wash their hair with a scalp massage.
  3. Steam: Kiss under the water for one minute.
  4. Soap trail: Draw a soapy line from their neck down, then follow it with kisses.
  5. Front: Wash them from the front, as slowly as you can.
  6. Wall: Press them gently against the wall and kiss their neck.
  7. Cold: Ten seconds of cold water, then warm up together.
  8. Towel: Dry them off completely, kissing every spot you dry.

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