Foreplay Ideas for Couples
Good foreplay is mostly about taking your time. These games make that easy: a die decides what comes off and how, a massage that slowly stops being just a massage, and timers that make you stop right when it gets interesting.
Undress Me Dice
Who takes what off, and how. Keep rolling until there’s nothing left.
Who
- You undress me
- I undress you
- You undress yourself
- I undress myself
- Both at once
- Loser of rock-paper-scissors
What
- Top
- Bottoms
- Socks
- Underwear
- Accessory
- Your choice
- One item
- Two items
How
- Slowly
- With your teeth
- Eyes closed
- While kissing
- Strip-tease style
- No hands
- In under 10 seconds
- Partner gives directions
Sensual Massage Dice
A massage that slowly stops being just a massage.
Area
- Back
- Shoulders
- Inner thighs
- Chest
- Stomach
- Feet
- Bottom
- Lower back
- Neck
- Hips
With
- Warm oil
- Fingertips
- Whole palms
- Forearms
- Your body
- Lips
- Breath
- Nails, lightly
For
- 1 minute
- 2 minutes
- 3 minutes
- 5 minutes
- One song
- Until they moan
Then
- Kiss the spot
- Move lower
- Move higher
- Switch roles
- Keep going
- Partner chooses
Kissing Timer
A kiss challenge and a timer. No stopping before it rings.
Each task runs for 20–75 seconds.
- Kiss without using hands
- Kiss while slow dancing
- Kiss only the neck
- Kiss with your eyes open
- Kiss as slowly as possible
- Kiss and whisper between kisses
- Kiss sitting on my lap
- Kiss like it’s the last time
Tease Timer
A random task and a random time. When it rings, you stop. No matter what.
Each task runs for 30–120 seconds.
- Kiss without using hands
- Massage my back
- Kiss along my neck and shoulders
- Undress me, slowly
- Kiss me everywhere except the lips
- Grind on my lap
- Fingertips only, anywhere above the waist
Shower Together Cards
Hop in together, draw a card each time you swap places under the water.
Play “Shower Together Cards” →
- Lather: Wash your partner’s back and shoulders slowly.
- Hair: Wash their hair with a scalp massage.
- Steam: Kiss under the water for one minute.
- Soap trail: Draw a soapy line from their neck down, then follow it with kisses.
- Front: Wash them from the front, as slowly as you can.
- Wall: Press them gently against the wall and kiss their neck.
- Cold: Ten seconds of cold water, then warm up together.
- Towel: Dry them off completely, kissing every spot you dry.
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