Sex Positions to Try, with Pictures
Each position below has a simple pictogram and a one-line description. Nothing acrobatic: these are positions most couples can try tonight.
Can’t decide? Spin the positions wheel or draw from the deck and let chance pick. Skip anything that doesn’t feel right and keep lube within reach.
Positions Deck
Draw a card, try the position. Skip any you don’t like.
- The Anchor: One sits at the edge of the bed, the other straddles them face to face. Slow and close.
- Side by Side: Lie on your sides, facing the same way. Lazy-morning speed.
- The Throne: One sits in a sturdy chair, the other on top facing away.
- Lean In: Standing, one leans forward on a table or counter.
- Lotus: Sit cross-legged, partner on your lap, legs wrapped around you. Breathe together.
- Rider: One lies back, the other on top sets the rhythm.
- Reverse Rider: Same as the rider, but facing the feet.
- Edge of the Bed: One lies at the edge with legs up, the other stands.
- Spoon Up: Spooning, then the front partner lifts their top leg.
- Face Down: One lies flat on their stomach, a pillow under the hips.
- Wildcard: Invent a position together and name it.
Positions Wheel
Spin, try the position for one song, spin again.
- Missionary
- Cowgirl
- Reverse cowgirl
- Doggy style
- Spooning
- Standing
- Lotus
- Edge of the bed
- Legs on shoulders
- Against the wall
- Face down
- Chair
Position Dice
Let the dice choose the position and the pace.
Position
- Missionary
- Cowgirl
- Reverse cowgirl
- Doggy style
- Spooning
- Standing
- Lotus
- Edge of the bed
- Sitting on a chair
- Against the wall
- Bent over the table
- Legs on shoulders
Pace
- Painfully slow
- Slow and deep
- Steady
- Fast
- Stop and start
- Your partner decides
- Grinding, no thrusting
- Only the tip
- Speed up every 30 seconds
- Freeze for 10 seconds every minute
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