Femdom Ideas for Beginners (Boss Wife Night)

Wife in Charge Dice

Boss wife night, the gentle version: she rolls, he follows, and nothing goes past light kink.

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She asks for

1. A foot massage
2. Oral, her pace
3. A slow strip for her
4. Breakfast in bed tomorrow
5. Kisses everywhere she points
6. Him on his knees for a minute
7. Him blindfolded
8. Him completely still
9. A compliment for every touch
10. Her choice

His rule

1. Ask before touching
2. Say “yes, ma’am”
3. Hands behind your back
4. Eyes on her only
5. No finishing until she does
6. Thank her after each kiss
7. Speak only when asked
8. No rule tonight

If he behaves

1. She rides him
2. He may choose the position
3. Hands free
4. She uses her mouth
5. Five minutes of anything he wants
6. Cuddles and praise

FemDom Command Dice

She rolls; he obeys. Four dice: the command, tonight’s rule, the reward and the punishment.

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Command

1. Kneel
2. Kiss my feet
3. Undress me slowly
4. Use only your tongue
5. Massage my legs
6. Bring me a drink, on your knees
7. Lie still while I tease you
8. Put on the collar
9. Hands behind your back
10. Worship my body for 5 minutes
11. Ask permission to touch
12. Watch, don’t touch

Rule tonight

1. No finishing without permission
2. Call me Mistress
3. Eyes down
4. Speak only when asked
5. Thank me for everything
6. Stay naked
7. Kneel when I enter
8. Count every edge

Reward

1. You may touch me
2. You may finish
3. A kiss
4. Choose a position
5. Hands untied
6. Five minutes of my mouth
7. Sleep in my arms
8. No reward yet

Punishment

1. 10 spanks
2. Corner time
3. Denied tonight
4. Clamps for 5 minutes
5. Tied up and teased
6. Sleep on the floor pillow
7. Edge 3 more times
8. She decides