Play safe: safe word and limits, restraints and rope
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Restraints and rope
- Never put anything around the neck.
- Check hands and feet often: numbness, tingling, cold or blue skin means untie right away.
- Keep safety scissors within reach to cut rope fast.
- Never leave a tied-up person alone, not even for a minute.
You'll need
- Rope or scarf
- Vibrator
- Safety scissors
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What's inside
Truths
- What fantasy have you never said out loud?
- What do you want to try that scares you a little?
- How do you like to be touched when you are close?
- What is the dirtiest thing you would let me say to you?
- Which toy should we buy next?
- What is your favourite position with me, and why?
- Would you rather be tied up or do the tying?
- What is the wildest thing you have ever done in bed?
- Have you ever faked it with me? Be honest.
- What do you think about when you finish?
- What is your favourite thing to do with your mouth?
- Have you ever wanted to watch me with a toy?
- Where would you most like me to finish?
- What is the kinkiest porn you have enjoyed?
- Would you try a threesome? With whom, in theory?
- What is one thing I could do tonight that would blow your mind?
- Do you like being told what to do in bed?
- What is your favourite thing I say during sex?
- What would you want to try on a weekend away?
- Have you ever touched yourself thinking about someone else while with me?
- What is the most times you have finished in one day?
- Would you rather be teased for hours or taken hard and fast?
- What is a role you would love me to play?
- What body part of yours do you want me to pay more attention to?
- Have you ever wanted to film us? Would you?
- What is your hardest no?
- What kink have you been curious about lately?
- How rough do you secretly like it?
- What is the best sex we ever had, and what made it so good?
- What would you do to me if I couldn’t move?
Dares
- Use your mouth wherever I point, one minute
- Touch yourself while I watch for 30 seconds
- Let me tie your hands for the rest of the game
- Get me as close as you can, then stop
- Choose a position and hold it for two minutes
- Strip completely, slowly
- Let me pick a punishment for your next skipped dare
- Oral for one minute, eye contact the whole time
- Use a toy on me for one minute, your choice
- Let me use a toy on you while you keep still
- Describe in detail what you will do to me, without touching
- Spank me five times
- Get on your knees and ask nicely for what you want
- Blindfold me and touch me somewhere unexpected
- Kiss every part of me except where I want it most
- Finish me with your hands, no breaks
- Ride me for one minute
- Edge me twice in a row
- Lick me slowly from my knee up
- Put on a show for me for one song
- Let me choose a position, no complaints
- Use only your tongue for two minutes
- Pull my hair while you kiss me
- Let me decide when you finish tonight
- Kiss me while touching yourself
- Make me beg before you continue
- Show me exactly how you touch yourself
- Wear nothing but one accessory for the rest of the game
- Take me to the edge with your mouth, then stop
- Pick any dare from this game and double it