Spicy Questions to Ask Your Partner

The best spicy questions are the ones you are a little nervous to ask. Below are three sets that go from flirty to properly dirty, so you can start gentle and turn the heat up when you are both ready.

Take turns, answer honestly, and keep one rule: either of you can skip any question. If you would rather not read from a list, open a set as a game and let it pick for you.

Spicy Truth or Dare for Couples

No kink, just honest answers and hot dares.

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Truths

  1. What was the best sex we ever had and why?
  2. What do I do in bed that you love most?
  3. Which position do you secretly want more often?
  4. Where in our home do you want to do it next?
  5. What is your favourite thing to do with your mouth?
  6. Do you prefer to be on top or underneath?
  7. What is the hottest thing I have ever said to you?
  8. What turns you on instantly?
  9. What should I wear tonight?
  10. When did you last think about sex with me during the day?
  11. What sound of mine drives you crazy?
  12. What do you want me to do slower?
  13. What do you want me to do faster?
  14. What is your favourite time of day for sex?
  15. What would make a perfect quickie?
  16. Which song would you like playing in bed?
  17. Have you ever finished just thinking about me?
  18. Where is your most sensitive spot?
  19. What is one new thing you want to try with me?
  20. What do you think about right before you finish?

Dares

  1. Take off one item and keep it off
  2. Kiss me from my neck down to my waist
  3. Use your mouth on me for one minute
  4. Sit on my lap and grind for 30 seconds
  5. Undress me completely, slowly
  6. Choose a position, we hold it for one minute
  7. Touch me only with your lips for one minute
  8. Whisper exactly what you are going to do to me
  9. Lick a line down my stomach
  10. Let me undress you with my teeth
  11. Ride me for one minute
  12. Kiss my inner thighs, no further
  13. Show me how you touch yourself
  14. Give me a 30-second lap dance
  15. Kiss me while touching me wherever you want
  16. Take me to the shower
  17. Pin me down and kiss me
  18. Make me moan in under a minute
  19. Pick any spot on my body and worship it for one minute
  20. Pick a dare for me

Naughty Truth or Dare

Honest answers, bold dares.

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Truths

  1. What is your favourite part of my body?
  2. What was the hottest moment we ever had?
  3. What do you think about when you touch yourself?
  4. Where is the riskiest place you would want to do it?
  5. What outfit would you love to see me in?
  6. What do you want me to do more often?
  7. Have you ever had a dream about me? Tell me.
  8. What was your first thought when you saw me naked?
  9. What is the most turned on you have ever been in public?
  10. What is your favourite way to be kissed?
  11. What is something sexy I do without realising it?
  12. Where do you most like to be touched?
  13. What is the sexiest text I have ever sent you?
  14. What song would you want playing in the bedroom?
  15. Lights on or lights off, and why?
  16. What is a fantasy you would tell me only tonight?
  17. What is the naughtiest thought you had about me today?
  18. What is your favourite thing I wear to bed?
  19. Morning or night, and why?
  20. What would you do if we had the house to ourselves all weekend?
  21. What is one thing you want me to whisper to you?
  22. Have you ever watched me sleep and thought something naughty?
  23. What turns you on that might surprise me?
  24. Which part of your body do you want more attention on?
  25. What is the best kiss we have ever had?
  26. What is your favourite position with me?
  27. What is the longest you have gone thinking about sex with me during a day?
  28. Would you rather be teased for an hour or have me right now?
  29. What is something you have wanted to try but were shy to ask?
  30. Describe our perfect night in three words.

Dares

  1. Take off one piece of clothing
  2. Kiss my neck for 30 seconds
  3. Give me a lap dance for one song
  4. Whisper what you want to do to me
  5. Let me blindfold you for the next round
  6. Kiss me from my lips down to my belly button
  7. Send me the sexiest text you can, right now
  8. Undress me using only your teeth for one item
  9. Sit on my lap facing me until your next turn
  10. Give me a hickey somewhere hidden
  11. Kiss me where you most want to be kissed
  12. Run an ice cube along my collarbone
  13. Show me how you like to be touched, on my hand
  14. Do a slow strip tease of your top
  15. Bite my lower lip gently
  16. Let me take off whatever I choose
  17. Lick my ear slowly
  18. Kiss my inner thigh
  19. Tell me your fantasy while looking me in the eyes
  20. Trace my body with one finger, from neck to waist
  21. Pin my wrists above my head and kiss me
  22. Moan my name
  23. Keep your hands behind your back for the next round
  24. Kiss me for one minute without stopping
  25. Pick a body part of mine and kiss it 10 times
  26. Put on the sexiest underwear you have
  27. Grind against me for 30 seconds
  28. Let me write a word on your body with my tongue, guess it
  29. Unbutton or unzip my clothes slowly
  30. Pick one dare from this list for me to do to you

Bedroom Would You Rather

Both answer, then explain. Bonus point if you act one out.

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  1. Would you rather…: Morning sex or late-night sex?
  2. Would you rather…: Slow and romantic or fast and urgent?
  3. Would you rather…: Lights on or lights off?
  4. Would you rather…: Be kissed everywhere or kiss everywhere?
  5. Would you rather…: Sex in a hotel or sex in a tent under the stars?
  6. Would you rather…: A long massage or a long make-out?
  7. Would you rather…: Hear exactly what I want or have me show you?
  8. Would you rather…: Shower sex or sofa sex?
  9. Would you rather…: Be undressed slowly or rip each other’s clothes off?
  10. Would you rather…: One amazing round or three quick ones?
  11. Would you rather…: Me in lingerie or me in nothing?
  12. Would you rather…: Be on top all night or never on top?
  13. Would you rather…: Quiet and intense or loud and playful?
  14. Would you rather…: Plan a sexy weekend or be surprised by one?

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