Kinky Ideas for Couples to Try

Kink does not have to mean a dungeon. For most couples it starts with something small: a blindfold, a tie around the wrists, one partner giving the orders for ten minutes. Light kink first, and the bolder games when you both want more.

Agree on a safe word before you roll, keep a pair of scissors nearby for anything that ties, and check in afterwards about what you liked. Rolling for the idea takes the pressure off asking for it.

Light Kink Starter Dice

A soft first step into kink: gentle restraint, new sensations, simple orders.

Play “Light Kink Starter Dice” →

Restraint

  1. Blindfold
  2. Hands held above the head
  3. Wrists tied with a scarf
  4. Hands behind the back
  5. Not allowed to move
  6. Not allowed to touch
  7. Soft cuffs
  8. None this round

Sensation

  1. Feather
  2. Ice cube
  3. Fingernails
  4. Gentle bites
  5. Warm breath
  6. Silk
  7. Hair pulling, soft
  8. Light spanks
  9. Kisses only
  10. Massage oil

Order

  1. Stay quiet
  2. Say thank you after each touch
  3. Ask for what you want
  4. Keep your eyes closed
  5. Count every touch
  6. Describe what you feel
  7. Don’t move your hips
  8. Beg a little
  9. Call me by a title
  10. No order this round

For

  1. 1 minute
  2. 2 minutes
  3. 3 minutes
  4. 5 minutes
  5. One song
  6. Until someone begs

Kinky Dice

Agree on a safe word before the first roll. Red means stop, always.

Play “Kinky Dice” →

Tool

  1. Blindfold
  2. Wrist restraints
  3. Ice cube
  4. Feather
  5. Your hand
  6. Silk scarf
  7. Massage candle
  8. Your choice
  9. Clamps
  10. Paddle
  11. Flogger
  12. Collar

Do

  1. Tease
  2. Spank
  3. Tie up
  4. Tickle
  5. Trace slowly
  6. Pin down
  7. Deny
  8. Worship
  9. Bite
  10. Command
  11. Edge
  12. Kiss better

Where

  1. Wrists
  2. Bottom
  3. Thighs
  4. Chest
  5. Neck
  6. Back
  7. Feet
  8. Partner’s choice
  9. Inner arms
  10. Hips
  11. Nipples
  12. Lips

Kinky Wheel

Safe word first, then spin.

Play “Kinky Wheel” →

  1. Spank ×5
  2. Tie my wrists
  3. Blindfold for the next round
  4. Choose a toy
  5. Hair pulling, gently
  6. Orgasm denial: stop right before
  7. Call me what I like to be called
  8. Wax or ice
  9. Kneel
  10. Safe word check-in, then spin again

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