Play safe: safe word and limits, anal play, edging and denial
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Edging and denial
- Edging is a game, not an endurance test. Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable.
- Punishments should be playful and agreed in advance.
You'll need
- Lube
What's inside
Today
- Edge 3 times
- Edge 5 times
- Only slow strokes
- Only toys
- Only anal play
- Hands-free attempt
Finish allowed?
- Yes
- No
- No
- Only at midnight
- Only after 10 edges
- Only if you roll a 6 tomorrow
If you break the rule
- 48 hours off
- Double edges tomorrow
- Cold shower
- Write it down and confess
- A week without toys
- Roll this die twice tomorrow