BDSM Scene Dice
Seven dice build a whole scene, aftercare included. Negotiate limits and a safe word first.
Play safe: safe word and limits, restraints and rope, spanking and impact, wax and ice, blindfolds
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Restraints and rope
- Never put anything around the neck.
- Check hands and feet often: numbness, tingling, cold or blue skin means untie right away.
- Keep safety scissors within reach to cut rope fast.
- Never leave a tied-up person alone, not even for a minute.
Spanking and impact
- Hit only fleshy areas: the buttocks and the back of the thighs.
- Never hit the lower back (kidneys), spine, tailbone, joints, head or neck.
- Start light and build up. Keep watching your partner’s reactions.
Wax and ice
- Only use low-temperature massage or soy candles, never ordinary household candles.
- Test wax on your own wrist first and pour from higher up to let it cool.
- Keep wax and ice away from the face and genitals, and keep ice moving instead of holding it on one spot.
Blindfolds
- Guide a blindfolded partner when they move. No sudden pain or surprises they didn’t agree to.
You'll need
- Restraints
- Blindfold
- Paddle
- Flogger
- Feather
- Ice cubes
- Safety scissors
What's inside
Dominant
- You
- Me
- Switch halfway
- Roll again
Restraint
- Wrists in front
- Wrists behind the back
- Spread on the bed
- Hands above the head, no rope
- Kneeling, hands on thighs
- None
- Tied to a chair
- Ankles only
- Collar and leash
- Elbows behind the back, loosely
Senses
- Blindfold
- Earplugs
- Blindfold and silence
- Eyes open, eye contact
- Lights off
- None
Impact
- Hand spanks
- Paddle
- Flogger
- Light slaps on the thighs
- None
- Dominant’s choice
- Paddle, 10 strokes
- Hand, alternating cheeks
- Flogger, slow rhythm
- Spanks counted out loud
Sensation
- Feather
- Ice
- Fingernails
- Biting
- Warm breath
- Clamps
- Wax
- Silk
- Cold metal
- Tickling
Protocol
- Call me Sir or Ma’am
- Ask before speaking
- Count every strike
- Thank me after each touch
- Stay perfectly still
- Keep eye contact
Aftercare
- Cuddle under a blanket
- Water and a snack
- Warm bath together
- Lotion on any marks
- Talk about what you liked
- All of the above