Strap-On Positions Deck
Positions that work well with a strap-on. Skip any that don’t feel right.
Play safe: safe word and limits, anal play, strap-on
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Strap-on
- Adjust the harness so it sits snugly and the toy doesn’t wobble: better control means less risk.
- The giver can’t feel what the receiver feels. Let the receiver set the depth and pace, and keep talking.
You'll need
- Strap-on
- Lube
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What's inside
- Classic: He is on all fours, she kneels behind. Easy to control depth.
- Face to Face: He lies on his back with a pillow under the hips, legs up. Kiss while you move.
- His Ride: She lies back, he lowers himself on top and controls everything.
- Reverse Ride: Same as his ride, facing away. She can reach around.
- Spoons: Both on your sides. Slow, close and very gentle. Good for beginners.
- Flat Out: He lies face down, a pillow under his hips. She lies over him.
- Standing: He bends over the bed, she stands. Needs a good height match.
- Chair: She sits on a sturdy chair, he sits on her lap facing away.