Strap-On Dice
For couples who peg or want to start. Warm up generously, the receiver sets the pace.
Play safe: safe word and limits, anal play, strap-on
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Strap-on
- Adjust the harness so it sits snugly and the toy doesn’t wobble: better control means less risk.
- The giver can’t feel what the receiver feels. Let the receiver set the depth and pace, and keep talking.
You'll need
- Strap-on
- Lube
- Butt plug
What's inside
Warm-up
- Long back massage
- Oral
- Fingers, slowly
- Small plug first
- Rimming
- Vibrator outside
- Kissing while she straps in
- Receiver’s choice
Position
- On all fours
- On his back, legs up
- Spooning
- He rides
- Face down, pillow under hips
- Standing, bent over the bed
- Edge of the bed
- Kneeling, facing a mirror
Pace
- Barely moving
- Slow and deep
- Steady
- Faster when he asks
- Stop and start
- He moves, she stays still
- Grinding, no thrusting
- Only shallow
- Deep and still
- He begs for each thrust
Extra
- She strokes him
- Hands tied
- Dirty talk
- Cock ring on
- He touches himself
- Eye contact
- Slow kisses on his back
- Nothing else
- Plug for her too
- She pulls his hair
- Spanks
- Wand on her
For
- 2 minutes
- 5 minutes
- 10 minutes
- One song
- Until he begs
- Until someone finishes
Finish
- He finishes during
- She finishes first, with a toy
- Both
- Nobody yet
- Hands-free attempt
- She decides