Play safe: anal play, clamps, blindfolds
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Clamps
- Leave clamps on for 15 minutes at most.
- Taking them off hurts more than putting them on: remove them slowly, one at a time.
Blindfolds
- Guide a blindfolded partner when they move. No sudden pain or surprises they didn’t agree to.
You'll need
- Wand
- Vibrator
- Butt plug
- Dildo
- Stroker
- Cock ring
- Nipple clamps
- Blindfold
What's inside
Toy
- Wand
- Bullet
- Plug
- Dildo
- Stroker
- Cock ring
- Nipple clamps
- Blindfold
- Beads
- Vibrating plug
- Paddle
- Feather
Who uses it
- You on me
- Me on you
- You on yourself
- Me on myself
- Both at once
- Partner’s choice
- You choose for me
- Me on you, you on me at once
- Swap halfway
- Roll again
Where
- Nipples
- Clit or tip
- Inside
- Anal
- Inner thighs
- Perineum
- Anywhere
- Your choice
Setting
- Lowest
- Medium
- Highest
- Pulse
- Wave
- Change every 20 seconds
For
- 30 seconds
- 1 minute
- 2 minutes
- 5 minutes
- Until they beg
- Until they finish