Orgasm Control Dice
One partner holds the keys. Roll for the edges, the rules and the verdict.
Play safe: safe word and limits, anal play, restraints and rope, edging and denial
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Restraints and rope
- Never put anything around the neck.
- Check hands and feet often: numbness, tingling, cold or blue skin means untie right away.
- Keep safety scissors within reach to cut rope fast.
- Never leave a tied-up person alone, not even for a minute.
Edging and denial
- Edging is a game, not an endurance test. Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable.
- Punishments should be playful and agreed in advance.
You'll need
- Wand
- Rope or scarf
- Lube
- Safety scissors
What's inside
In control
- You
- Me
- Switch each round
- Roll again
Edges
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- 6
With
- Mouth
- Hands
- Wand
- Sex
- Their own hand, you watch
- Your choice
- Vibrator on low
- Fingers inside
- Toy and mouth
- Grinding only
Rule
- No touching yourself
- Hands tied
- Must say when close
- Must count each edge out loud
- No moving
- Eye contact the whole time
- Hands above the head
- Blindfolded
- Thank me after each edge
- Beg before each edge
Verdict
- Allowed to finish
- Denied tonight
- Ruined finish
- Finish twice
- Ask again in 10 minutes
- Controller decides
If you finish early
- 10 spanks
- No touching for 48 hours
- Clean up and start again with 3 edges
- Your partner picks a punishment
- Plug in for the next hour
- Wear what your partner chooses tomorrow