Play safe: safe word and limits, edging and denial
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Edging and denial
- Edging is a game, not an endurance test. Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable.
- Punishments should be playful and agreed in advance.
Nothing to prepare.
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What's inside
Who
- You
- Me
- Both at once
- You first
- Me first
- Nobody yet, edge once more
How
- Hands
- Mouth
- Toy
- During sex
- Watching each other
- Partner’s choice
- Between the thighs
- Against my bottom
- With a stroker
- Wand at the same time
Where
- On my chest
- On my stomach
- On my back
- On my bottom
- Inside
- In my mouth
- On my face
- Wherever you want
Permission
- Ask first
- Beg first
- Count down from ten
- Only when I say now
- No rules
- Hold eye contact
- Say please three times
- Only after I finish
- Partner counts you down
- Look me in the eyes