Play safe: safe word and limits, wax and ice, blindfolds
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Wax and ice
- Only use low-temperature massage or soy candles, never ordinary household candles.
- Test wax on your own wrist first and pour from higher up to let it cool.
- Keep wax and ice away from the face and genitals, and keep ice moving instead of holding it on one spot.
Blindfolds
- Guide a blindfolded partner when they move. No sudden pain or surprises they didn’t agree to.
You'll need
- Blindfold
- Ice cubes
- Feather
- Massage oil
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What's inside
Sensation
- Ice cube
- Warm breath
- Feather
- Silk
- Fingernails
- Warm oil
- Silk scarf
- Massage candle wax
- Soft brush
- Lips only
- Teeth
- Cold metal spoon
Where
- Neck
- Inner thigh
- Lower back
- Chest
- Lips
- Feet
- Back of the knee
- Stomach
- Ears
- Wrists
- Nipples
- Spine