Play safe: safe word and limits, anal play, edging and denial
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Anal play
- Use lots of lube and add more often. The body does not make its own lubrication there.
- Start small and go slowly. Pain means stop, not push through.
- Only use toys with a flared base. Anything without one can slip in and need a doctor to remove.
- Never go from anal to vaginal without washing the toy or changing the condom.
- Silicone lube can damage silicone toys: use water-based lube with them.
Edging and denial
- Edging is a game, not an endurance test. Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable.
- Punishments should be playful and agreed in advance.
You'll need
- Vibrator
- Lube
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What's inside
Tease with
- Mouth
- Hands
- A toy
- Your body
- Only breath
- Words
- Ice
- Feather
- Vibrator on low
- Lips only
Until
- 10 seconds before the edge
- They say please
- They say your name
- The count of 30
- They beg
- You decide
- They ask permission
- 5 edges
- You get bored
- They promise you a favour
If you finish early
- 10 spanks
- No touching for 48 hours
- Clean up and start again with 3 edges
- Your partner picks a punishment
- Plug in for the next hour
- Wear what your partner chooses tomorrow