Play safe: safe word and limits, restraints and rope, blindfolds
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Restraints and rope
- Never put anything around the neck.
- Check hands and feet often: numbness, tingling, cold or blue skin means untie right away.
- Keep safety scissors within reach to cut rope fast.
- Never leave a tied-up person alone, not even for a minute.
Blindfolds
- Guide a blindfolded partner when they move. No sudden pain or surprises they didn’t agree to.
You'll need
- Blindfold
- Rope or scarf
- Safety scissors
What's inside
In charge
- You
- Me
- Switch halfway
- Roll again
Order
- Kneel
- Undress me slowly
- Kiss where I point
- Tell me what you want, in detail
- Keep your hands behind your back
- Ask permission before you touch
- Lie face down and wait
- Crawl to me
- Present your wrists
- Kiss my hand and ask for more
Rule
- No talking
- Eyes closed
- Call me Sir or Ma’am
- Count every spank
- No moving
- Say thank you after each touch
- Ask before finishing
- Only whisper
- Hands behind your back
- Thank me for every order