Play safe: safe word and limits, edging and denial
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Edging and denial
- Edging is a game, not an endurance test. Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable.
- Punishments should be playful and agreed in advance.
You'll need
- Vibrator
- Lube
What's inside
Each task runs for 20–90 seconds.
- Use only your mouth
- Use only your hands
- Use a toy
- Partner on top, slow pace
- Your choice, fast
- Tongue only, the slowest you can
- Touch yourself, partner only watches