Play safe: safe word and limits, spanking and impact
Any task can be skipped. Anyone can stop the game at any moment, no explanation needed.
Safe word and limits
- Agree on a safe word before you start. A common system: "yellow" means slow down, "red" means stop now.
- If someone can’t speak (gag, mouth busy), agree on a signal instead: dropping an object or tapping three times.
- Check in regularly. Silence is not a yes.
- Plan aftercare: water, a blanket, cuddling and a calm talk afterwards.
Spanking and impact
- Hit only fleshy areas: the buttocks and the back of the thighs.
- Never hit the lower back (kidneys), spine, tailbone, joints, head or neck.
- Start light and build up. Keep watching your partner’s reactions.
You'll need
- Paddle
- Flogger
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What's inside
- 5 with the hand
- 10 with the hand
- 5 with the paddle
- Alternate cheeks, 8
- Slow and hard, 3
- Fast and light, 15
- Flogger warm-up, 1 minute
- Over the knee, 6
- Bottom picks the count
- Mercy: a massage instead
- Count backwards from 10
- Spin twice